portion and stability

- a point between two opposite forces that is desirable over purely one state or the other - 

keeping everything balanced. your sanity, your working life, your mental health, other people's feelings, keeping it balanced all at a time is not something that is easily attainable and facile, like the french word. how do we find the balance in the things that we do? 

some would say (assertively) that everything has to be kept separated, your career, your family, your lifestyle. every element have their own level of priority. as i was talking to a friend, we were at a mamak restaurant, at 10:13 a.m, i figured what this person said was true. to have everything in control, you MUST enjoy the process,  emphasize the word process. meaning that, the goal and the limit is not the top priority, but the process itself. finding yourself through the journey and at the same time, thrive for benefits. for yourself, and for others. 

combining the life (the elements) as you find the right person to enjoy the process with. a forward thinking person, a person who can change their minds when presented with information that contradicts their beliefs, which is the hardest thing to do. the only barrier that is challenging, and also a part of it (the process). but that is one way to fully utilize your whole energy and life. the satisfaction, feeling enough and adequate, nothing can beat those two. but somehow, this person said that you should never feel satisfied,  for everything that you do, owing to the fact that it is considered as a "limit". the word limit itself could fall into the good place, and the bad place, as it is a stopping point, a wrap-up for one. a single word could mean a million thing, just.. take heed.

know your limit, but don't put a limit.

x.